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A Family Joke
"It will be all right" My family and close friends recognize that we are coming up on five years since Lisa died. For me, the grief is...
Ann Filler
Aug 20, 20202 min read
Numbness
A definition for numbness, according to Merriam-Webster is “unable to think, feel, or react normally because of something that shocks or...
Ann Filler
Jul 23, 20202 min read
Dying During the Pandemic but not from COVID-19
During these most unusual times, my husband and I have experienced deaths in each of our families and with friends. My aunt, my husband’s...
Ann Filler
Jun 17, 20202 min read
When a Loved One is an Essential Employee during COVID-19
During this time, many people are told to “shelter in place”, but there are others who are considered “essential employees” and need to...
Ann Filler
Apr 18, 20202 min read
COVID-19 and Grief
I am a “high-risk” person. Over age 65 with underlying health issues. Therefore I am pretty much staying in and avoiding exposure to...
Ann Filler
Mar 21, 20202 min read
You Can't Tell Just By Looking
Someone said to me the other day (when talking about a ten year old boy), "He seems fine. You can't tell that his mother died two months...
Ann Filler
Feb 27, 20202 min read
What's a "Rack Card?
We had a Lisa's Legacy board meeting this week. What a dynamic group of people! Lots of ideas, plans and suggestions flowed during the...
Ann Filler
Feb 6, 20201 min read
A Salute to Caregivers
I've been thinking about caregivers ever since Steve and I had lunch with two other couples. Out of the six of us, four people had need...
Ann Filler
Jan 26, 20202 min read
An Unusual Thought
When reading a grief quote last week, the phrase ended with "we will hold your memory in our hearts forever". When I thought about it,...
Ann Filler
Jan 9, 20201 min read
The Aftermath
i'm writing today about the time period when both parents are gone and the last surviving parent's funeral is past. Now it's time to...
Ann Filler
Dec 29, 20192 min read
Two New Ways to Commemorate a Loved One
I've come across two new ways to commemorate a loved one that do not appear on the insert page in the Lisa's Legacy bag. Both of them...
Ann Filler
Dec 20, 20191 min read
Remembering Nick
By Susan Judd He comes to me in my dreams. He is as I remember him from years past, a lanky teen on the threshold of young manhood, with...
Ann Filler
Dec 1, 20192 min read
A Silent Memory
By Susan Judd She silently enters the restaurant, abiding by the sign that says, “Please Seat Yourself” and makes her way slowly to a...
Ann Filler
Nov 19, 20192 min read
It's All in the Bag
By Michelle Grim The passing of a loved one, whether expected or not, alters our path for the days directly afterwards and for many years...
Ann Filler
Nov 3, 20191 min read
Grief Comes A-Knocking
By January Simpson When I agreed to write a blog post for Lisa’s Legacy of Hope, it didn’t even occur to me that I might have trouble...
Ann Filler
Oct 19, 20193 min read
Juxtaposition
Besides being a fun word to say, juxtaposition is defined as “the fact of two things being seen or placed close together with contrasting...
Ann Filler
Oct 6, 20192 min read
An Innocent Encounter
By Susan Judd After waiting a few minutes, you are next in line at a bookstore. You become acutely aware of a small presence standing...
Ann Filler
Sep 19, 20193 min read
Sighs and a Dash of Envy
I enjoy using social media and especially like to keep up with what friends and family are doing. My social media “friends” range from my...
Ann Filler
Aug 26, 20192 min read
Wondering About Heaven
Ever since our Lisa died, I try to imagine where she is. I firmly believe that she is in Heaven. No question! But what is Heaven like?...
Ann Filler
Aug 17, 20192 min read
Because
Because my grandfather’s funeral was two days before school started, my parents arranged for us to stay with friends while they traveled...
Ann Filler
Aug 8, 20193 min read
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